Oct 167 min readReluctance to Engage in Psychotherapy and Resistance to ChangeMany will end up hesitating or never engaging in psychotherapy because of their unconscious fear of change.
Sep 208 min readAttachment to Trauma and Toxic RelationshipsAttachment to trauma is an emotional attachment to childhood trauma that may be continuously re-enacted in adult relationships.
Aug 2312 min readWhat Is Love? Unconscious Fantasies and the Couple’s Capacity for Intimate and Mature LoveThe capacity for mature adult love is not an absence of an unconscious fantasy but the ability to hold and contain them in the relationship.
Jun 118 min readHow Unconscious Fantasies Influence Romantic RelationshipsUnconscious fantasies guide, colour, and shape our romantic relationships. But because they are unconscious, we usually remain oblivious...