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Midlife Crisis: The Fall of the Dream
The passage of time often shows its effects at the start of midlife, culminating in the collapse of unconscious fantasies.
Feb 1611 min read
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A Life Without Relationships: Excessive Independence, Trauma, and Parentification
Chloe was a single, independent, and successful businesswoman who had travelled the world as part of her expat career. She was a...
Dec 20, 20247 min read
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Parentification: The Trauma of High Performers, Perfectionists, and Workaholics
Perfectionism, workaholism, and high performance are traits often caused by the childhood trauma of parentification.
Dec 7, 20249 min read
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What Is Love? Unconscious Fantasies and the Couple’s Capacity for Intimate and Mature Love
The capacity for mature adult love is not an absence of an unconscious fantasy but the ability to hold and contain them in the relationship.
Aug 23, 202412 min read
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The Loneliness and Pain of the Parentified Child
Parentification is a phenomenon that occurs when there is a reversal of roles between the parent and the child. This can be in the form...
May 31, 202411 min read
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Parentification and the Childhood Trauma of the Parentified Child
Individuals who may seem excessively independent, resilient, self-reliant, dependable, workaholic, or committed to taking care of others,...
May 10, 202415 min read
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