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Narcissistic Fantasy and Midlife
Midlife can be a difficult period for those presenting with narcissism. The collapse of dreams may evoke a sense of loss and loneliness.
5 days ago10 min read
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Midlife Crisis: The Fall of the Dream
The passage of time often shows its effects at the start of midlife, culminating in the collapse of unconscious fantasies.
Feb 1611 min read
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A Life Without Relationships: Excessive Independence, Trauma, and Parentification
Chloe was a single, independent, and successful businesswoman who had travelled the world as part of her expat career. She was a...
Dec 20, 20247 min read
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Parentification: The Trauma of High Performers, Perfectionists, and Workaholics
Perfectionism, workaholism, and high performance are traits often caused by the childhood trauma of parentification.
Dec 7, 20249 min read
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The Sense of Unworthiness and How It Impacts Relationships
The experience of unworthiness affects not only how one perceives themselves but also their relationships, past, present, and future.
Nov 27, 20248 min read
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Reluctance to Engage in Psychotherapy and Resistance to Change
Many will end up hesitating or never engaging in psychotherapy because of their unconscious fear of change.
Oct 16, 20247 min read
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Attachment to Trauma and Toxic Relationships
Attachment to trauma is an emotional attachment to childhood trauma that may be continuously re-enacted in adult relationships.
Sep 20, 20248 min read
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What Is Love? Unconscious Fantasies and the Couple’s Capacity for Intimate and Mature Love
The capacity for mature adult love is not an absence of an unconscious fantasy but the ability to hold and contain them in the relationship.
Aug 23, 202412 min read
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The Narcissist’s Distorted Perception of How Others See Them
Listening to a narcissistic individual talk about their sexual encounters with a never-ending line of romantic partners reveals the...
Jul 20, 20246 min read
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Narcissism, Relationships, Love, Infidelity
The impaired capacity for empathy and intimacy in close relationships is the main cause for the narcissist's difficulties with...
Jun 19, 20248 min read
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How Unconscious Fantasies Influence Romantic Relationships
Unconscious fantasies guide, colour, and shape our romantic relationships. But because they are unconscious, we usually remain oblivious...
Jun 12, 20248 min read
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Narcissism: Subtypes and the Relationship With Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Narcissism is a term which is often colloquially misunderstood, misused, and carries a negative value connotation to describe someone who...
Jun 5, 202413 min read
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The Loneliness and Pain of the Parentified Child
Parentification is a phenomenon that occurs when there is a reversal of roles between the parent and the child. This can be in the form...
May 31, 202411 min read
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Interpretive Dynamic Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy (IDTAP)
Interpretive dynamic transactional analysis psychotherapy (IDTAP) (Zivkovic, 2020, 2022) is one of distinctly psychodynamic approaches to...
May 26, 20247 min read
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Effects of Childhood Trauma on Adult Romantic Relationships
Difficulties with close relationships, especially romantic relationships, are some of the most common presenting issues in psychotherapy....
May 22, 202411 min read
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Eating Disorders: Psychological Characteristics and Psychotherapy
Eating disorders are mental conditions characterised by issues related to eating or weight control. They can present themselves as mental...
May 18, 20247 min read
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Parenting Styles and Their Impact on the Child’s Mental Health and Education
Western society places a strong emphasis on a child's education and their development as an independent individual. This societal...
May 15, 202412 min read
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Parentification and the Childhood Trauma of the Parentified Child
Individuals who may seem excessively independent, resilient, self-reliant, dependable, workaholic, or committed to taking care of others,...
May 10, 202415 min read
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Dependency
Dependency, often confused with dependent personality disorder (DPD), is a broader term. It's defined by a person's reliance on...
May 6, 20247 min read
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Parenting Styles and the Child's Psychological Wellbeing
Parenting styles refer to the attitudes and behaviours that parents display towards their children. They significantly influence the the...
Apr 29, 20249 min read
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